What would I think? I'd think he's a coward and has no b*//s. When my ex decided to leave I went to speak to his father. Come to find out his dad had been encouraging him to leave me because my expectations were too high. (I expected him to be a husband and a father, not a drunk and a run around.) The apple doesn't fall far from the tree I guess. Jerk just didn't know how to go about it-leaving me. Really? So Jerk now lives with his Daddy-he can have him. Life is much better now that he's gone. Hang in there. It's a long, tough process, but there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Keep us posted.