Dixie,

Your husband is a coward for laying the blame of the divorce on the kids. I am seeing how most cheaters and liars are cowards...that is why they lie and cheat in the first place. What is it with these men? On the outside they want to appear large and in charge, but on the inside they lack a back bone of any kind. My ex is one for not facing things, before, during and after the divorce, but he acts the part of a big wig in front of others. I think half the problem these men had with us is that we were much more grounded and stronger than they felt they could ever be...maybe they were a little insecure and had to lower the bar and go out to find someone to match their character.

Birds of a feather flock together

Susan