My thesis is in, my defense is at the end of June, and my kitty is being sent to my parents at the end of the week. I've started researching moving companies that move my things back to the states. He is slowly (painfully so) paying back the the money he stole. I am getting him to sign the papers in July... which is the earliest it can happen. (And he will sign, He just discovered that some money tied up in the government and bank here regarding our marriage will only be released when we are divorced .) He can't ask for spousal support at this point because the laws here require that to be done at separation and it wasn't. Life is moving right along... and it feels GOOOOOOOD!

GOOD FOR YOU!!!

Yay! Good for you, good for your sweet kitty!

You news is wonderful! Your new improved life is coming soon. You are an amazing young women! Thank you for the bright spot you have shared with us. It is always nice to hear something positive on this site. Hope your home soon.

I just moved for financial reasons and smaller space, because now its just me and son..
I was sooo happieeee at first few days..
But although I am happy and feel this change was/is good..
I still have that emptiness/ inside..

Wish he'd give me closure I need...
if not for me, then for son..???...

I know I shouldn't care about a person like that, but geez, he is or was (now I guess).. "our family"..???...

How can someone just cut short all that?
feel like dirt.. me and son..

and he knows how to push my buttons: by ignoring us:(