Dear Dixie, Congraduations! It really does sound like you have come to that place where you can move on. It is probably just a curiosity on your part as to what is going on with the ex. The OW does many times get our left overs and they don't taste as good once they set down to the table. I sense you wouldn't have him back even if he wanted to come back. Keep posting and let us enjoy hearing about your wonderful new improved life. My prayers are with you. I wish you great peace and happiness!