I am so impressed with your grace and poise under fire so to speak. It is odd how we finally see once the hurt doesn't cloud our judgement so much. One day you will probably wonder what you were thinking that you actually married this man. You do have a very bright and shinning future ahead of you. Hope kitty is doing fine. Thank God you didn't have any children with him! Unlike so many on this forum you can really make a clean break. Go get that great life.