Well, the water company came by to turn our water off today...I had to pay $81.96 to keep them from turning it off...We are suppose to go to court next Wednesday the 22nd to finalize the divorce & he couldn't pay the bill...Boy what will the judge say when we got proof of a trip, I would say they went on & several resturant bills...I just hope they don't feel sorry for him & give me what I rightfully deserve...I had to email him to give his daughter her money for the week when he was out getting drunk Monday night...Typical got money for his pleasures but never for his family he has all but thrown out on the streets...
And to all the normal strong wives...
@least we have a "soul" to write this, as any human being would going through same emotional rollarcoasters...
I believe my husband is a sociopath..anti-social personality disorder...
I can't seem to find "closure" any other way..
I am very kind, care about what people think, goals, future....
and he is just... like a four-year-old...
but no compassion..
no tears, ever, but once, maybe twice from him..
so tell me...
And writing how we all feel, is THE BEST thhing we can do..
I'd rather be a person with a heart, versus a person who isn't doing what I am now..
Because in a year or so..
HE WILL be the one thinking... 'hey, I really lost a Good person'
;) (:
And that alone, makes me sleep..oh sooo well @night:)
Dear ladies, I think sometimes God breaks up these destructive marriages for our own good. What kind of future to we give our babies if we have to rely on these types of defective men. You ladies are on the paths to rebuilding a stronger better life for yourselves and your children. We must all be careful to choose wiser the next time. Stay strong. We are here to support you.
No, blue got married at 18, had my first child at 24 & never worked...Was married 27 yrs...We have 4 kids together & he just walked overnight for this OW...