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Went to a bunch of yard sales with my darling daughter this morning. 
Normally, I absolutely love them, and my negotiating skills are second to none. Today, however, we ran into WK and the Beast. (Not literally. Too bad. 
) He looked tanned and healthy; he's lost some weight.
Whoever told her, though, that a baggy, spaghetti-strap tank top with skin-tight, showing-every-bit-of-cellulite jeans (and a significant muffin top besides) was a good idea should be smacked, LOL! About time she learns to dress herself, because she is pushing 40 and doesn't look good in skimpy clothing (probably never did!).
WK didn't speak to me at all, even when we were standing one person (and three guesses who that one person was) away from one another at the same table...although I caught him checking out my butt as I walked away.
He'll never learn, I guess, to stop wanting what he can't have.
Deirdre,
You are to funny. I can picture it all. Your ex lost someone who would have brought laughter to his life. Oh, the gifts these men give away when they let their wives go. Keep shaking that booty. I know you said he didn't speak to you at all, but his wandering eyes speak for themselves. Love your stories....
Susan
He's unbelievable. Today is Father's Day, and his daughter - who is, of course, also my daughter - was the only one who thought of a card, or any type of commemoration of the day for him. (Of course, since she doesn't have a job yet, I got the "privilege" of paying for it, but what's ten bucks in the larger scheme of things, right?) She wanted to do something nice for her daddy, on his special day - like she did for me, on mine. But I'm embarrassed to say that I didn't even think to pick up a card for the boys to give to him. And I sincerely doubt that Beast did, either.
Today, Beast, instead of spending time with her father, and letting the kids be with their father, by themselves, has dragged WK to her parents' house. Yes, she continues to interfere in his relationships with our kids...am I surprised? I shouldn't be. But I am. We'd just discussed this, mere weeks ago. And now, here he is, deserting his children, ignoring me (except in retreat, LOL 
), kowtowing to her every whim. Spineless. Not to mention d*ckless. Hope this changes soon, or my kids won't have even a speck of respect left for him...