I read your post and was just outraged at the damage your ex has done to your children (and you) and he just gets on with life while you are there trying to pick up the pieces of your childrens lives.
Dear Dina, I hope late at night the ex can't sleep and is repulsed by himself! He isn't off scott free he can't get away from himself. He knows the sick horrible things he did to his own children. I hope he suffers with this until the day he dies!!!!!!!!!I'm glad you let him have it. I hope you can get the youngest in the same situation as the oldest. Some type of group setting to help her to know she is not alone. I hope the young man that abused her gets his as well. You are so strong to have made it this far. You can do this. You can't even grieve for yourself because you have to grieve for the children. I believe God will punish those who have harmed your girls. Just know we are here to listen and are keeping you in our prayers.