ive been separated almost a year and im in a new relationship and so happy but thats not the problem.. my best friends sister is getting married and she asked for my help in planning. I was ok at first in helping but the more i get involved i think about my own wedding and how beautiful it was etc.
i went one day and looked at my rings in their box and cried. i didnt think id cry anymore about it and that i was over the hurt? im happy with the new guy so why am i still crying for??
Every so often you still mourn the old relationship. I think it has something to with how how deeply we were connected. You aren't alone there. Sometimes situations just trigger the tears.
For me crying once in awhile will probably go on for the rest of my life. If onlyfor my children and grandchildren I will mourn the family we should have had. HOnestly, I think I will cry for me to. I cannot imagine not loving him and wondering what might have been. He is part of my past, a very important part, and anyone I end up with, if there is someone else which at 53 I am not at all sure of, will just have to understand.