It’s a second marriage mainly focused on raising family and now its run out of steam. There is no more incentive on either side. And we just live pay to pay......I really believe we could be better parents and collaborators outside of marriage. Looking for ways to transition to fully filing for divorce.
Sue that is where I am too maybe we can talk I really think I just need someone to tall to who understand that a 20 year relationship is not something that you can just dissolve because you know it may be best for everyone.
My ex left after 21 years - was divorced in 2009. Available for questions, but hope you both research the divorce laws in your State and get a consultation with a Lawyer.