The good part of divorce which doesn’t get mentioned often is that ; Be happy , you get to have space to heal , reinvent yourself, reevaluate, enjoy life , shy away from what was mostly unhealthy , less stress more freedom no worries and the best part is you get to fall in love again hopefully experiencing what you did in the past can help you have a better future this time around.

I know, well said! He's not paying support so I'm a bit poor but I'm happier than I have ever been. I'm gaining weight (I was underweight), I don't have as many migraines, and my stress induced seizures have completely stopped.