Hi,
My husband announced to January 4th that he was leaving me for another woman. He moved out March 8th. He was dating her every weekend since December 1st but was using an excuse that I would support (bible study with new believers).
I never saw this coming. I thought things were fine. We had plans that were going to be done over the next 2 years.
He chose his computer time over me. He chose his computer time over sex. And now he is blaming me because we never had "us" time. I work 2nd shift & he worked 1st.
Our 31st wedding anniversary is next month. How do I rebuild after being married for this long? Our kids are 29 & 23. Our grandkids are almost 4 & 10 weeks. How can he turn his back family, me, his kids & grandkids?
He boasts about all the time he spends with her kids & grandkids but he makes no effort to spend time with his own.
I'm a good wife, I'm a good mom, I'm a good grandmother.
Where do I go from here? :sob: