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What women go through

We (women) do no "choose" love. We fall in love like men but choose to stay loyal to that love from that point on, no matter the cost to ourselves. Men base their behavior on what they feel.
"I just don't feel turned on, and I have to have my needs met!" Says the male partner to himself as his exhausted, frustrated, and relationship-depressed wife falls asleep nursing babies, dirty and unkept. "When did he start looking at other women again and cheating on me with porn??" The bewildered, heart-broken wife asks herself.
The truth is, men are asthetically, sexually,and egocentrically based and do not understand that to say that women are not is a gross understatement.
I don't know about you, but I am not willing to watch my partner eye**** everything with a vagina, whether it be on a movie, the internet, in the coffee shop, or talking to my sisters. Cheating is in the eyes of the beholder, men being the epitome of the 'beholder'; and so porn is the ultimate act of disloyalty.
We fell in love with perfect bodies. Fun. Ok, irrelevant to me. Then you impregnate me despite my confiding in you how I was weary of raising my siblings all my life and was looking forward to living for at least a couple years. Then I had to think about my son being an only child and we added two.
Now I'm weary of the mental abuse. My boobs are stretched from nursing, my stomach is stretched from carrying babies, my skin is palid and tarnished from no sleep and no time to myself, and my will to proceed is stretched and broken.
If you want to eye**** everything there is to see, can you at least leave me alone sexually and let me try to enjoy my kids? And would it kill you to leave the kids and I alone and still hold up to your end financially?
I begged for you to hold me and listen to me, but you were never there for me like I was for you. Infatuation only goes so far, "friend".

Re: What women go through

Men are disgusting.

Re: What women go through

I agree with you. Before I dated a guy, I’d read his microexpressions to see if they find anyone other than me more aesthetically or sexually appealing, and if I interpret that then I will ghost them.

Also I could never get with a guy who genuinely watches porn. Usually I “test” them and have a convo to determine if he watches porn, and if he is one of those rare types who does not then I will pursue something romantically.

Men are disgusting. Some women are equally so, but women are far more sexualized than men and men are socially pressured to sexualize women.