I disagree. He's not meeting your need for affection. Alienation of affection. Nor is he spending quality time with you. Sounds like he's taking you for granted and not placing you as a priority. Check the laws in your state.

I disagree. My ex wasn't coming home until 9 or 10 p.m. from the start of the marriage. My Lawyer had another client whose spouse had been doing this and they ended things. Where I live it's called "irretrievable breakdown of the marriage" means the marriage cannot be fixed and is grounds for divorce.