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Sounds to me like he has some other issues going on that he does not want you to know about. Maybe you can suggest counseling if you want to stay with him, but it sounds like he has either moved on already, or is preparing too. This author went through virtually the same thing as you, the book might be of help to you: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1693393220
Hi...Can you supply the actual name of the book you reference? Thanks!!
20 Years Gone: A Divorce Story Author: Dorian Wright
Thank you for the book title! I couldn't get the link to work (it's prob. "me"...not very computer savvy).
Jen: Please get a consultation with a divorce lawyer ASAP. They will guide you through the home process. Best wishes.