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Divorce lessons

Hi all! I am conducting a research about women in divorce process. I need your help to gather data for my research and empower women as a result.

If you are willing to help me, please share an action (related to your divorce or separation) you took over the past week that you thought was not mindful, and somehow affected you or your life negatively. Also please do the same for an action you took that had positive effects on you. You can comment under this post to share your actions. Thanks in advance for your participation.

Re: Divorce lessons

Negative- becoming angry at my soon to be ex husband because he continues to have his girlfriend & her daughter around our child even after I stated to BOTH of them that I don’t want her around my child until we meet, establish boundaries etc.

Nope he continues to allow her to come & my daughter tells me this

Positive- learning that you can’t expect you from other people. A situation that is out of my control don’t let the situation control me yet control how I react to it. Don’t let the situation/ actions of other consume me

Hope this is the what you’re looking for! Lol