Jannat: I dated a bipolar man after my marriage ended. It was a disaster very similar to what you describe. He was on meds., but it was a long time before they found one that really worked and then they would have to change it. He called me a slut, treated my 18 year old badly behind my back and wanted the woman next door because my daughter reminded him, behaviorally speaking, of his son. Eventually, I had a nervous breakdown. Please get out of this marriage ASAP and find work and best wishes to you.