Am I the only one that feels like every time you try to take a positive step forward or be proactive in the divorce process everything just comes back to slap you in the face like try again ! And you starting back further than before! I feel like no matter how positive I try to be, rise above my soon to be ex childish antics I’m still the one paying the cost! Having to be the bigger person ... letting my concerns & terms take the backseat while he get to have the upper hand! Like wtf!!

I swear it’s times like things where I really question myself is it worth the fight?! How much more of this circus can I handle?! Then I regroup and say this is for your daughter to provide with a stable environment while going thru this madness but I’m human I have my breaking points & limits when will I catch a freaking break and start to see the light at the end of the tunnel!!

I so feel you! There have been so many days this past year I could have written your words myself. I separated August of 2018 and the divorce finalized July of 2019 and I am still having days (and weeks, and months) like this. This entire situation sucks for us that are genuinely fighting for what our children need and deserve. I wish I could answer the "when will it end", but I still don't see the light at the end of the tunnel myself. But I will keep you in my prayers.

Thank you Jennifer! I will keep you in my prayers too! I swear the better days are coming soon. This situation is only temporary.

yogaislife: Let the Lawyers do the talking as much as possible.

Yes I’m learning to do that now! Thanks for the advice!

Great advice Lara! Yogaislife, keeping you in my thoughts as I enter into this first phase!