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He just asked for a divorce - What do I do?

I've been married fourteen years to a physician who has Asperger's. Because of the Asperger's it hasn't been easy, but somehow we have managed until this past Sunday, when my husband asked for a divorce. I'm in shock. He had an affair three years ago and things have never been the same. What do I do next? I'm hurt, confused and scared. I never thought this would happen.

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Sorry to hear, Caroline.

If you read "20 Years Gone: A Divorce Story" by Dorian Wright, you will find out about another person that went through a very similar experience as yours.

It's always awful to be enlightened about cheating, or your spouse's alternate life.

My thoughts are with you.

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Thank you for the tip!

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Ask him if he’s willing to try counseling. Divorce is hard on everyone involved.

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counseling is not an option.

Re: He just asked for a divorce - What do I do?

I’m sorry 😐
If you’ve done all you can then all that’s left is to take care of yourself. Brace yourself, the ride will be bumpy. Don’t seclude yourself. Let your loved ones be your support system.

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