Melissa, experience showed me that you can't trust these beautiful promises on paper.

Divorce or no divorce, you need to make this agreement legally approved.

One day, he might meet with a new girlfriend who will convince him to stop giving you that much money. She'll want her part too :grin:

Or maybe, just like I read on another post, for any reasons, he will decide to stop paying from one day to another, leaving you no options.

Just be prepared for the worst situation.