I can relate! This used to happen with me. $40 a week and I was making $35 an hour. It only gets worse. I wish I would have gotten out sooner, but it’s easier said than done. Presently my job was dissolved and I’m getting unemployment but it’s not enough for my car, insurance etc. He offers no support whatsoever but now that his dad has dementia he’s wanting to pay for everything. I’m feeling bad but I just can’t take it. I’m not living like a paper so he can care for his dad. It’s scary but I am pursuing an attorney and I need a very tough one because he will fight me every step of the way.

I so get it! Mines so controlling. Hes bipolar and doesn’t take his meds also a narcissist. I want out so bad but don’t want to be homeless. I have a good job but also a few years ago my job was dissolved and my unemployment wasn’t enough to cover my bills. Now my credit isn’t great so how would I buy another home? He has a good job and a lot in retirement so I guess there’s that. I don’t know I just feel stuck and don’t know how the process works.