Surely a potential solution then might be (if you are able to of course) - Get a job, rent your own place for you and your child to live in and not leave the State until he’s independent ie grown up. How is leaving your child in the care of a drug dealer ok, compared to you wanting to be nearer to family? If you get a job, you can pay to fly to visit them every once in a while... What am I missing here? Sorry if I’m missing something here.

So I have decided to stay in Arizona. My son is only 6 months and it would be better for him. I am still going to get a divorce. I've already started looking for a job and looking for an affordable apartment. i just have to create my own support system out here.

Well done Janae! 🙏🌻

Thank you. It hasn't been easy by any means. My husband is beyond difficult to deal with. I get a divorce is something we never thought we would be going through but here we're no need to be an ass just because your mad that isnt going to make anything better. We have a child together and his life is in our hands and we need to be focused on him.