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Re: Vent: Going through a divorce with our two kids but now he says he wants them

Ouch! This hurts and I can totally relate to the feeling of fighting and being broke. I'm over 60,000 in my divorce really hasn't started. It sounds to me like divorce is never a solution but just a different set of problems. I never understand how courts give 50/50 custody to someone who would never want custody if it wasn't based on time shared and payment. The motivation to have time with your kids should not be based on how much money you have to pay and that if you have them more time you pay less. Always remember you become what you surround yourself with and for me the money received is not worth my child being surrounded by people who don't share decent values and morals.