Hi all. Im looking to divorce my husband of 13 years. We have three children together. I feel as tho i dont want to be here anymore and i only stayed the last few years for the kids. But im not sure how much more i can take.

He has no idea i want a divorce. Everytime i try and make a conversation he shuts me down and blames everything on me.

Im unhappy all the time. I feel best when im alone or its just me and the kids. I dont wantto hurt them or for them to resent me for breaking tge family up.

We dont work as hes disabled and im his carer. Our two youngest are also disabled but they are still independent so dont rely on me all the time..
Any suggestions as to how i leave?...