First of all good luck for today!
Its one more step to it being sorted out and to freedom from your situation.
Your Judge at todays hearing will probably have come across people behaving like your husband. And hopefully know how to deal with him and his solicitor.
Divorces are based on the premise of "needs" you should be entitled to a fair pension split 50/50 hopefully - and if your solicitor believes your husband has purposefully delayed proceedings you may be able to counter claim him for some of your costs of the divorce.
I know its very hard but try to keep going every day knowing that you are making progress to your much brighter future x