A lot of men do watch porn. Men who reach midlife and beyond and who wouldn’t necessarily stand a hope in hell of having a buxom woman sexually, find it exciting. But-of course it’s pure fantasy. All make-believe-I mean, some of the storylines are just so fake that they’re utterly laughable.

The issue is though, that he’s not just engaging in watching porn-he’s also belittled and insulted you. Calling you ugly etc, is very hurtful. No doubt he’s no longer any ‘oil painting’ either: Age impacts everyone’s hairline, waistline etc etc. (unless you’re rich enough to get constant surgeries…)

I hate to say, but I’m going to be frank: You we’re out of town for a long time. Do you think maybe he took his fantasies to another level and had an affair and/or met up with a hooker? Maybe the gift offerings are his guilty conscience?