It’s like you are living in my house! That’s EXACTLY how it was. I was always doing all the things and he was always sitting on the couch playing games on his phone. A “grown” man.
It is awful at first, but it does not compare to the first morning you wake-up and realize you don't have to worry about somebody getting upset, whining, complaining... Or worse... Watching you run around like crazy person trying to get things done while while they sit around like a bump on a log. Trust me, when that moment comes it is glorious and makes you realize they were never worth all the time and energy you wasted.