Hello
My divorce is finally finalized is it normal to cry
I do not know if I am crying of happiness of sadness ?
When I think about him I feel sad and start to cry even though I do not want him back
How can I get him out of my mind ?
I was married to him for 30 yrs
There was more bad times than good times throughout my marriage

Hello Leyla,

Let me first say that it is normal to cry. I was married for 11 years and it took several years for me to stop crying and thinking about him. It is not going to be easy to get him out of your mind, actually from my personal experience you may never get him out of your mind but with time you will think less and less of him and you will begin to have more good days than bad. The nights of crying your eyes out give way to days of laughter (Psalm 30:5 MSG).

Hi Layla
I coukd have wrote your post, same 30 years, keep crying, can't figure it out. I wish you well you aren't alone.