Hi, I’m curious as to why you believe your adult sins would cut you off from seeing them and also any future children they may have? That seems a pretty full-on assumption?
Maybe going to the homestead every day is not a good idea. It’s sending mixed messages: Either you are separated…or you’re not? It’s ok to visit-maybe even once a week-but every day???
Do they all visit you? Or is it you going to them all the time? If the latter-then maybe the person who would find it too hard an emotional separation, is actually yourself? Just saying…