I am afraid if I help him I will be to weak and not continue with the divorce because he can be manipulative.
And my Adults kids did not have a Father and Son/Daughter relationship through out their years so they do not want their Father in their life and also because the way he treated me.
Most of my Friends and Families is happy for me and they keep questioning how did I survive these marriage for that long .
They all are saying that my decision is for the best and I will have more peace in my life. (Which is True)
I am in the same boat as you, I also have a husband with a serious medical condition. I am planning on divorcing him but guilt has stopped me. But, as people have told me, he made his bed, he made choices and now has to live with the consequences of those choices. I no longer feel guilty about leaving. You shouldn’t feel guilty, you have a right to be happy and if that is no longer with him, then so be it.