Re: Has anyone on here left their husband for another man ?
I am in no way condoning an affair, but I can certainly understand the why and need. I believe you should leave your husband regardless, especially if you feel threatened. That is no way to live. I recommend professional help and guidance, and if he continues to come home and mentions men who hurt their wives I would go to the police. You should not have to live in fear of the man who vowed to protect you. Best of luck.
Re: Has anyone on here left their husband for another man ?
Thank you, I appreciate your non judgment and understanding. I have recently sough counselling to over coke my fear of leaving him. I did go to a divorce lawyer but I did not mention my affair. Maybe I need to go back and me room it so she can give me advise on what to do next regarding a divorce if I am scared of violence.
Re: Has anyone on here left their husband for another man ?
I am glad to hear you have started seeing a counselor. You need to be honest with the counselor, if you aren’t they can’t help and guide you. Seeing a counselor is a safe, nonjudgmental space for you, a person you can share all everything with.