Both of us is 60 years old. He is veteran and has cancer that is not active now. I did set a time line for him to move, but he gets disability and that is not enough for him to rent an appartment. We leave in NJ and the rent is high. I am trying to do everything that you advise, but I still do not understand how the person who had everything can give up on relationship without trying, but it was his choice and now both of us have to leave with it, but not in my house.

I am worried that I would have to go to court and ask the judge to evict him. Otherwise he will never move