My ex keeps telling people he's divorcing me....we each agreed....but it was me that had to leave to go to refuge as he was alcoholic.
I kept all this quiet, but wanting now to put my side out there.
Don't want to sound bitter, but fed up with his "woe me" comments.
Any thoughts. X

Those who really matter to you know the truth. There is something to be said about quiet dignity.

I am leaving my husband because of an ongoing affair he had. He told me that we will just tell everyone we no longer get along, I pretty much said, tell people what you want, but I will not lie for you and the truth ALWAYS comes out, always.