Hi
Sometimes I am not in the mood of being affectionate when my husband approach me ….when he sees that I am not in the mood he will say
“Do you want me to give it to someone else than”
Instead of him being understanding

Hi
That’s very manipulative of him to say that. My ex said that to me and he turned out to be an emotionally abusive man. A woman should never be black mailed into having sex. I hope you continued to say no and I hope he’s not abusive to you in other ways.