Re: Is this type of behavior Controlling or Acceptable ?
I am currently 25 years married and now going through the early stages of divorce because I am done with the psychological and emotional manipulation.
You deserve to be happy and to make your OWN decisions yourself. You do not need him to tell you what to do.
I hope you will have the courage to do so ... sometimes walking away is the only option because you finally respect yourself enough to know that you deserve better. Not my words but it's my daily mantra.
Re: Is this type of behavior Controlling or Acceptable ?
Thank you for your output too :)
It is a long marriage hopefully I will have the courage to leave him (we are both in our 60’s )
So far I am in good health :) but not him :(
Re: Is this type of behavior Controlling or Acceptable ?
It doesnt sound like the renters or property is really the prob i think its he feels power from making people wait on him, his time, his schedule, his voice is the only 1 he wants to hear its disrespectful to the renters but mostly shows how he disrespects you like your voice or actions are nothing in the big world