First of all, stats pls??? Wikipedia probably
Do you have any peer editing experience or proof of credentials possibly a link to your stats
An abusive man will only support abuse men because they can relate and understand
But if you're a healthy minded man you will not be able to put yourself in an abusive mans shoes
Here is a fact : i can provide websites legally and govt sited for how much support for single parents tons of support
Housing
All child related needs provided
Banking
Employment
Child care
Child activities whether school or afterschool programs paid for
Medical converage
And parenting after divorce classes
I'm so sorry that you are going through this.
It does not sound like a healthy or safe situation for you or your child.
I can tell you from experience that verbal and emotional abuse doesn't just get better. It will only get worse for you. Better to leave now than wait and wait.
I waited and I have guilt about the environment that I raised my children in. they have little experience of what a healthy marriage should look like.
Better to live in peace alone than continue to suffer his abuse.