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Re: Controlling Husband

I don't believe it will just change on its own. Maybe if he acknowledges his behavior and works to change it.

Or if you change your responses to him, thus forcing a change. My ex- was very controlling and emotionally abusive. I ended up going to counseling on my own, my therapist worked with me on how to change my behaviors, choices, acceptance of his behavior and when I started pushing back and not just "biting my tongue" because "it's just worse when I speak up", etc. Things did change a bit for the better, at least for me.

When I did file for divorce, I was in a better place emotionally anyways.

Good luck!
Kelly