First off-Go get legal advice. Everything may be in his name, but, depending on the law where you live, you are potentially entitled to a cut of houses/vehicles/401k/jewellery/savings etc. if you have kids-find out how you can submit an application to potentially claim child support from him.

Emotionally-Be kind and nurturing to yourself. Consider meditating, yoga, writing a journal, listening to calming music, exercising, taking a bubble bath, talking with friends and family etc.

If you’ve decided it’s over. Keep reminding yourself why you want it to end. Perhaps write some positive affirmations to yourself to encourage you to keep going, to stay strong and to remind yourself what your hopes, dreams and future aspirations are 🌸