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Re: I have posted before

I think you are grieving the life you wish you had had, the life he perhaps did not wish to give you.

I think that perhaps you are free and unsure as to what to do with your grief at the loss of your life's dreams and these never being apologised for being taken/ or acknowledgd...

if I were you I would wrap myself up in lots of self love and make a bucket list of what you want to do with your life now you have no apology forthcoming. Make a bucket list of dreams you can still achieve, and how you will heal you.

And don't let another day pass without putting you first.

Lots of love.

Also the Chinese have a wonderful saying take away everything you have left and imagine it gone- your beautiful children for example.... and then you meditate on what you have and that is happiness... my husband neglected my middle child when I entrusted him to have Merlin for a few months in his 17 years of life, because I had absolutely no choice, and sure enough my son died aged just 17 in front of me on a beach... having been fed by credit card despite being of weak health, housed not with my ex as promised, but alone for the majority of his days, allowed to join a gym and take body building tonics,,, and the worst part in court he cannot ever even recall the date my baby died... cc

Stay strong you have three blessings... xx