Listen, I was in a very similar situation. I’m not gonna tell you it’s easy but you need to get out. My soon to be ex was smoking marijuana. High potency, and he was relaxed but thought all of these terrible things about me that weren’t true. He got me arrested twice which charges were dropped.
I’m finding out now, that I can do it on my own. You can too.but I will tell you this. Be smart, take your daughter. Plan to have a job or a little money so you can support yourself. There are places out there that will help you. But you need to plan when the time is better, have somewhere to go (shelter) it seems scary but in the end it will be SO much better.
I left without my boys. He turned around and got temporary sole legal and physical custody of them..
So I’m getting three days visitation with them now. We won’t be seen again until February. But then a Pretrial date will be given.