We were together 27yrs. Married 23. Am 48. He tracked my mileage. tracked my phone. Cameras inside and outside the house. Needed to know my every move. It is hard to break those feelings of being watched and controlled. Have 2 adult boys also. Oldest couldnt wait to get out b/c of the controlling. I am in therapy. Pretty sure have ptsd. Going to take a long time to heal. Just hard to shake it some days. Moved to a different city to get away. But have family near. Rebuilding my social support. Which has been very difficult. This forum has helped alot.