Have always heard that one should forgive to move on. But i just found out my ex of 27yrs has lied to me about his savings and debts. His over $100K in consumer debt. Of which I am half responsible for. I feel I cant forgive him. Is that ok?
I'm so sorry to hear this. I too recently divorced and am having to pay bills that my ex made. He actually got someone in my name and didn't pay it so now I have to take care of it. I am just plain MAD. I feel exactly how you do, angry and dont know of I can forgive him. I dont know where I can find the strength to do it. I know for sure we can be angry without feeling bad.