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Re: Do you need to forgive?

Yes, of course that is okay.

I am so sorry that you are going through this!

I believe a large part of forgiveness involves the person who has wronged you apologizing, making amends, seeking forgiveness, atoning for their actions, etc.

Some people are able to or choose to forgive without those steps, but each person makes their own choices for different reasons.

It certainly sounds like you have reasons enough to be angry and resentful. Your feelings are valid and you are entitled to feel them.

Wishing you all the best!

Re: Do you need to forgive?

I'm so sorry to hear this. I too recently divorced and am having to pay bills that my ex made. He actually got someone in my name and didn't pay it so now I have to take care of it. I am just plain MAD. I feel exactly how you do, angry and dont know of I can forgive him. I dont know where I can find the strength to do it. I know for sure we can be angry without feeling bad.