I have been married for 4 years now and we have 1 children who just turned 2 years.
While I was pregnant I found out my husband had been talking to different girls on dating apps
He even created a fake accounts under different names to talk to women.
I found videos and pictures of nudes sent to him and texts, the list goes on and on.
I confronted him and tried to kick him out. I was due in a month it was covid times, I needed someone to be with me at the hospital.
I'm a forgiving person months passed and we spoke about it and his family intervened.
At the begining of this year I found flirteous messages about but he said that it was temption, but he's not entertaining that again.
Come July I found a messages of him solicitating a girl to have sex at a hotel. Profile pictures saved up of girls from tinder.
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Recently, he said he was sorry again and deleted everything gave me passwords to all his accounts mobile,social media and bank accounts.
He said he wants us to work so he is taking this steps this is after I found a video of him on a live call with a girl dancing for him.
Two weeks late I took his phone to see exactly what he deleted and found out he 3 different videos of him having sex with a girl in a hotel.
I want to divorce him and we are just about to put a down payment to our first home.
I'm hurting so bad as we had already put our staff in storage.
I cant see myself through with this man. It hurts so bad, humiliation disrespect
He cried and begged me for forgiveness but I don't want yo forgive him because he will never stop.
I'm scared of starting over after 8 years being together
My heart knows this is the best decision for me
In my culture they don't consider this grounds for separation and I know they will ask me to pray, go to counseling but deep down I know this man will never change.
He loves attention he gets from different women plus I feel like I married the wrong man.
I feel bad I have to separate him from my son but I can't stand this toxic relationships
You sound like a very level-headed and strong woman. And you shouldn’t have to put up with this. Doesn’t sound like he’ll change his ways and honestly it will probably only escalate into something worse. Starting over now may be easier than starting over years from now. In the end it’s your decision, but you do sound like you know the answer already.