Hi. My husband and I have been separated 2 years. We were together 14 years. Now at the point of filing for the divorce & im really going through it. I am an emotional wreck. I thought it would be easier after being separated this long but its not. I really don't know how to handle this.

I imagine just filling out the paperwork is a daunting task in itself. That’s probably bringing up past memories and that would be emotionally draining in itself. Be kind to yourself - remember you do deserve better.