I wouldn’t stay if there were physical violence

My ex was verbally and emotionally abusive

It was living on top of a volcano , never knowing when he would erupt and scream like crazy over the least little thing

I waited until by children were preteens and teens yo get a divorce

I was afraid of his temper and afraid of him driving my children when he would pick them up for visitation

When I decided to get divorced I took money out of our joint account to handle expenses fir a year

It was still hard financially because I had been a stay at home Mom for 17 years and had to find a job

My psychologist helped me by just having someone to listen

He didn’t tell me what to do but just talking to him gave me insight

Do you have anyone you talk to?

If your boys are teenagers it wouldn’t be like leaving him when they were younger
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