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Re: When did you know it was time

I knew it was time when I was told I could easily be replaced. No one should live being controlled, manipulated, lied to and gaslit constantly. When the person who says they love you doesn’t trust you or believe in you its time to go. If you can say honestly that you’ve tried and the other person isnt willing to try or make attempts to change things its time to go. And if there are no sexual relations another indicator to go. Ask yourself why you’re staying. Outside of fear. Make a pros/cons sheet. Might help

Re: When did you know it was time

Thank you for this, Mabel. I have been struggling with this. I told my husband just last week that I think I want a divorce for the reasons you listed (almost all of them). I keep trying to blame myself or tell myself that if only I would have been better in every way, then he would have loved me more. But I gave my all, all the time, with hardly anything in return.

Re: When did you know it was time

Get a lawyer. Find a therapist. Make a plan to leave. Trust what your gut is telling you. Not your heart or even your head. If your gut is screaming to leave….then leave. Hold your head high and know you dis everything you could .

Re: When did you know it was time

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