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Spousal support

Am to begin to get interim spousal support. How i emotionally accept this $? I dont want to see the etransfer and get upset each time. How i shift my thoughts to a positive. I’m not an arrogant person so telling my self i deserve this wont work. Or that I’m entitled to it….even tho I am. Uh. Is this making sense?

Re: Spousal support

I understand, I have some feelings about accepting alimony.

But, I think about it this way. It's not so much that I "deserve" his money; but I do deserve to live in peace in a home of my own without his verbal and emotional abuse.

I can only do that right now with the alimony support.

Good luck!