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I don’t know if I can do this anymore

Separated in October last year, my decision.
Things have been hell, he is living his best life going out and doing whatever he likes. 3 children involved and currently going through mediation to sort finances.
I am not sure I can carry on anymore. Still living together and I just can’t see an end to it.
I want to remove myself completely

Re: I don’t know if I can do this anymore

So sorry. Sending warm wishes. Hang in there. I still live with mine. Am thinking not living together would be best. Hope you find some peace.🙂

Re: I don’t know if I can do this anymore

I’m so sorry! That must be so painful

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Shannon
I’m so sorry! That must be so painful
Can't take no more wish i wasn't here can't see a end to it got kids and he thinks he needs a house

Re: I don’t know if I can do this anymore

Let’s make a pact to get ourselves emotionally strong ladies. Depend on ourselves. And remember to be friends first with any new love interests because men always try to impress if you’re dating them.

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Agreed! Being emotionally strong is key. I’m struggling through it with no family or friends to lean on, hardest thing I’ve ever done but I won’t let it beat me down any further. I am constantly talking to myself saying out loud I can do this.
Supporting each other and building each other up is so important. We can and will get through the worst because there is something good at the end of it.

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You can do this Zelda and you will. Stay strong for your kids. And do something nice for yourself every day!