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Was I enough?

How do you answer the question of why you werent enough. Been battling it all day wondering why I wasnt enough after 27yrs of marriage.

I’m the one that left. But I just dont understand why I wasnt enough for him

Thnx for any input

Re: Was I enough?

Please don’t ask yourself that. People change and grow apart and sometimes nothing we do can make a difference.

Re: Was I enough?

I am divorcing after 30 years of marriage and though it was a mutual decision I have always felt the same as you do now. I supported him through a long stressful career and at the end of it he just seemed to want his own life. I doubt either of the men in our lives are asking themselves the same question. It’s always us women who look back and wonder what happened.

Re: Was I enough?

You were enough and you are still enough? Why do you feel this way?